The perverse narcissists have a long history of camouflage. They test you, then try a tactic by your reaction, fits their strategy. Nothing elaborate. A lot of bluff, a chameleon side and a healthy dose of improvisation. Identify what the other most needed and lead to think they are ahead of him and you're playing. In general, it puts you at the outset on a pedestal, by what is what you need most and that is what will make the following more-enjoyable (yes, the narcissist is a sadistic pervert ) then once your esteem plumper is a different air you will hear it and that's when you realize how high a pedestal can be, with his column, base and all that and fall is dizzying ...
Some people a lot of insight to the feelings and need others, but are not always aware of their own feelings and are sometimes unable to make effective decisions to resolve some critical problems in their lives. Sometimes they doubt for themselves and do not know who they really are and that they are often entangled in all kinds of unhealthy situations, chaotic or perverse, prevents them a little more calmly think and see clearly. they are not able to use their emotions in a constructive way to make choices necessary and essential. By letting you draw by unstable people, problem, perverse, unavailable, or incapable of real love while dealing with chaotic situations, uncertain and painful affection, you do not take your responsibility vis-à-vis yourself. Their problems take center stage (to the delight of perverse narcissistic), allowing you to not having to look at yours and thus remain in a passive position, that of the viewer.
The euphoria of unstable relationships may mask a certain malaise, depression latent. The adrenaline is the cause of this sensation pleasant. A relationship with a narcissistic perverse we can produce the same effects on the absorption of a powerful drug and a similar dependence. There is nothing better than a relationship with a chaotic and exhilarating perverse narcissistic to stun our consciousness. The narcissistic pervert elsewhere are, when you look behind the mask or if you have the misfortune to attend on time, exalted beings, unstable, excited to see hysterical. People who have sex with narcissistic perverts are not all depressed, dependent, avoidant or passive-aggressive away from there, even if these characteristics can attract handlers perverse and easy way that they want to have. They will use these vulnerabilities or gaps to create a dependence on their prey.
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