relations with all perverse narcissistic enclose us, we enslave and oppress us. In contact with perverse narcissistic we feel our freedom of being, thinking and acting surreptitiously to escape. This is made possible by all the heavy artillery deployed by the one who tries we vampirize known as perverse seduction. The intended victim is under the influence, as bound and gradually let dispossessed.
Survivors of perverse narcissistic (as they are called in the U.S.) need access to a reappropriation of the self, what I call renaissance: live, think, act in exerting our free will without being hindered by the abuse of other orders.
know themselves better, to get a more fair, honest and authentic self. Know each other, accept each with its strengths and weaknesses to assert themselves and therefore do not have to leave set by others. Will know to relativize the eyes of others, their compliments as their negative opinions they refer us to no longer seek approval, acceptance at any price. So it is simply true, when the gaze of the other ceases to be an obsession. Becoming totally
our I is mainly to exist as a presence in the abscence other.
Being fully what I is always in the differentiation between self and other: Neither get caught up in another, nor vampirize, keep our uniqueness out of our own ressources.
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