interested us first people that the narcissist avoids perverse:
them those who esteem themselves quite good and mostly stable
-People who are very focused on themselves, take care of them first-
People who feel good about themselves and accept themselves as they are
-People who are calm and show a lot of composure.
-The very insightful and lucid
Indeed, they not only can provide this food as desired by our narcissistic narcissistic perverse but also does not play his game he read in their eyes that they are not stupid and he was unmasked. Worse yet, he will see in their eyes see a certain contempt for indifference. Injury from deeper! he will not feel recognized, but ignored the contrary see mocked. He will therefore do its utmost to avoid them. It can not compete with them and the comparison with these beings simply fulfilled her is unbearable.
The narcissistic pervert seeks the company of people he can exploit:
-people who have a fault, injury, trauma-
people warm, spontaneous, loving, needing to give
-Persons who have human values, moral and spiritually, which may affect life
-People (sometimes other perverse) that envy, jealousy or admiration, lust by
-People who doubt their value, are in the comparison and other easily admire
He locates immediately the ability to give, give and be dominated in the victim. Naivety and the need to give too much power to drive the prey exist to idealize this person and admire wrong.
Like him, the victim was built on a lack but rather than suffer the perverse to choose to block any emotion and instruct the victim to provide all that is missing (generosity, joy, love / admiration, recognition etc ...)
One who has built a positive does not yield easily to others, he loves above all the negative remarks and therefore have little control over him. The operating mode of a potential victim (person who could not be built) is to give evil too much to be loved, to forgive or accept not being perfect.
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