Breaking free from the grip of perverse narcissists present today in our life can not be done without a return on our past, our childhood, our parents and beliefs that have been transmitted. Examine the soil in which we grow, this plant helps to understand frail necessitating a tutor (or drastic pruning) which has not yet blossomed, and with a little care could finally reach maturity. Parent
critical, overbearing, overprotective, manipulative, resigned, abusive or dependent leaves an imprint in the child who is at the heart of its construction, particularly at the level of self-esteem and who continue throughout their lives unless a 'rehabilitation', which may take the form of a work on oneself. Often a traumatic relationship
will reactivate our faults, our vulnerability but may also lead us to an awareness and initiate therapy (cognitive and behavioral therapies can help us change our beliefs detrimental to our well being and our development).
To break free from the grip of harmful toxic parent or prevent the cycle of endless repetition, it must already have a more objective look at his parents to become more free and autonomous, indifferent to their critical and trial.
Know what love is and what is not you will not go to meet a pervert Narcissistic:
affectionate behavior does not crush you, do not imbalance, do not obsess, does not cause self-hatred, fear or discomfort in you. Love the contrary feeds your well being and emotional balance. It must give you the impression of being accepted and respected for what you are. true love not perverted, causes feelings of pleasure without pain, security, stability and inner peace.
Once you understand what love is, it may be necessary to see that our parents did not know or could not love us. Having clearly defined limits of our parents to accept them with what they have cost you, you opened the door that will allow you to love and be loved you as you deserve and give you new confidence in you.
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