We all use of assumptions, suppositions see belief when interpreting the actions or the statements of those around us even when we are faced with perverse narcissistic. For example, if one of them throwing a tantrum, we'll logically assume that he or she felt threatened or offended, that was awkward or offensive etc ... Big mistake! We
start from presuppositions or principles that apply to land and not those of the planet Narcissia. If the conflict can give them what they want, they will not hesitate to be aggressive if it is to give another example. Each time you do not follow their script, they get obnoxious about how to make you change and walk plier.Cela as to avoid a crisis or be a laughing stock in public, you are desperate to silence this child makes you a big fancy. They can give the impression of being angry, ready to explode, but remember this is just a mask over! They work all the time with in mind only the effect on the other, the better control you and make you go in the direction they chose to and never express their emotions or feelings, as in the land. They do not know what it means to speak and say. When you think they talk to you, addressing you, they just mimic emotions in front of a mirror (you) that returns a semblance of their existence. Reality. Their speech is purely utilitarian. Manipulative. They unauthorized use a frown, like a smile, a punch or a kiss. Like a robot that has just learned to associate behavior and situation.
So DO NOT TAKE PERSONAL WAY!
The mask he wears at a time T is no more significant of his feelings, than is the mask you wear to a costume party.
Another example of a presupposition is false regarding the perverse narcissist: you throw an ultimatum or just your behavior towards him that you are about to leave. He tries to redeem himself, becomes quite nice, surprises you by giving you small gifts or keeps you up to promises. You then say that it is not so indifferent, that he clearly wishes to you. NOT AT ALL! remember, he just NARCISSIA and thus change its behavior indicates he will not be dislodged parisite you like any suck blood, it snaps! Why? He needs to find another victim soon otherwise he can not live.
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